Creative Jewelling & Life


Sunset seen from my window


If you line up your life, you will see a pattern of your special way to react in your life. All of us are a product of both our family and our genetic. We learn how to react in situations by watching our parent’s way to do and by their reactions to our acting as kids. We do learn this from beginning of our lives, why many of us don’t put a question to, if this is the right way for us to live our lives.

Later in life, when we get experience about the possibilities, we may have, we maybe start exploring other ways to live. By education we learn a lot, also to be open to other souls view at life. When we are in the progress of learning, we take all in, minding what we feel are right for us, then sort out in our information’s. This is one of the really bad things that souls without education don’t learn. Yes, they are learning by doing, which can be very expensive both in feelings and economical. Education is the way for our mutual world.

When we have bad experiences in our lives, it is very easy to blame other souls for our mistakes. Right here we need to learn to be responsible for ourselves and for what might come out of those bad experiences. When we give away our responsibility, we also give away the control of our lives, which is fatal for our mentally health and for our personal development. More bad it becomes, when we don’t learn by our mistakes and just repeat them over and over again. Another example for these could be, when a woman find a man, who are treating her very bad, maybe are using alcohol or drugs too, and she finally find out how to escape from these very unhealthy relationship for her, then the next man she fall in love to, just repeat the same pattern. And then start to blame other for our bad lives, like “It is his fault that I’m so unhappy” or “she is destroying my life” etc. Do you recognize any of those?

If we really with to live a happy life, we need to take the control of our own lives and don’t blame other people for our bad lives. Put the spoon in the other hand and start being responsible for your own way to react and behave to yourself and to other souls.

Start your day with positive minding, every time you feel some negative come to your mind, blow it away and feel the power insight yourself, when you take the control over your mind. In the beginning it is very difficult just to stay positive all day long, but by practice it becomes more and more easy and you will feel it as a more natural way of living.

In the daytime you will meet challenges as will test your will to stay positive. Try not to express yourself in a negative way. If you don’t have any positive to say, then don’t say anything. Often silence tells much more, which you will find out by time. If anyone are provoking to you, walk away from those negative people and find yourself instead. Don’t waste your good life at bad human beings.

Before you end your day, find your inner gratitude and think, what did make your day good today? What did happen as did make you smile or laugh? Remember all the small things in your day. You can make a little diary where you write all the good things every day. Remember to put up the date every day. Later when you feel that you have a bad day, open your diary and read all the things you have to be grateful for.

By practice gratitude you will learn to attract all the good in life.

I hope you enjoy to stay here. The topic will continue next weekend.



LindaGHill describes: I was inspired by my photo of this morning to make this week’s prompt something to do with being aligned, lined up, or a drawn line. Please include this as a theme, or a word, or the title… whatever you want.

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Comments on: "Stop giving other control about your life" (18)

  1. Irene, thank you for these words today. Its a wonderful reminder about personal responsibility, a positive outlook and gratitude 🙂 Val x

  2. Gorgeous view, Irene! Thank you for this post too. This very morning I prayed to be thankful for what I have. Very timely. 🙂

  3. Great post as always, Irene 🙂 Thanks for joining in 😀

  4. Thanks for your words. I will writte my good things little diary 🙂

  5. I really like how you turned the prompt of ‘lines’ into patterns like DNA and family trees. we are complicated things aren’t we?

  6. I love this bit: Right here we need to learn to be responsible for ourselves and for what might come out of those bad experiences. When we give away our responsibility, we also give away the control of our lives, which is fatal for our mentally health and for our personal development. More bad it 

    This so makes sense and a very important thing to learn thank you x

  7. I’m finding we do need to take control. Beautiful sunset!

    • Thanks April and yes, it is healthy for us to take control ourselves and not just give it away to other, because it feels more easy to do.
      Special when we have a depression, it is so easy just to let all solutions to the partner, family or friends. Then we give away our own possibility to find our own way for healing.

  8. Awesome Irene… You write and express your creative and loving heart in words as much as in your jewelry! You are a great treasure and gift in my world thank you so much for all of your kind comments, compliments, encouragement and the smiles you share! 🙂 Beautiful post!

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