Creative Jewelling & Life

Change yourself


The view seen from my new house

I have met some souls in my life, who are really sucking out all my energy. By trying to find the background for this behavior I found out, that they are often self-focused souls, who have some problems about seeing other souls as equal living being. When I have been in their company for some hours, I feel so tired and exhausted like I did work hard in 12 hours.

I found out, that they often have a negative attitude and everything as are going on, always can be linked to other people. Not very often to themselves. They live in their own little world and have troubles about seeing much longer than to their tip of the nose.

The only way to change this way of living is to change their attituces from negative to positive, which is a big challenge to do and very difficult too. They are used to see the world through their own glasses and then they need to look so much away from themselves now.

We are all born with different qualities and our attitudes are for me to see a mix of these and our experiences in our early childhood. If we have had many bad experiences early, we are more predisposed to develop negative attitudes.

The way we are raised in our families do also have a meaning here. It is not always that this behavior come directly from the parents, maybe from other in the family, as they have spend much time together with.

Souls with negative attitudes are often attracted by the souls with positive attitudes. They wish their world also would be so easy, as they see the positive soulsΒ world are.

By experience I have found out, that the only way to try to change those negative souls minding is to show them, how we choose to live with a positive attitude and show them that life becomes much more fun, when we choose to see the good things instead of only give focus to all the bad things, as are going on in all souls life.

When we learn to focus at all the, maybe small, positive things, life looks more bright, becomes more fun and happiness are possible to find too in this world.

When I wake up in the morning I try to smile and be happy, no matter I have troubles too. My cats and my big puppy come and want hugs and attention, a friendly good morning and animals live in the moment, which we can learn from. Not to worry about things, we can’t change anyway, just enjoy the moments we have. Then I open my door or windows and listen to the birds singing, really nice music from early morning. It helpsΒ  me to stress down and be grounded, which again helps me to get a great start at the day.

I’m grateful to be able to live my life every day and I do focus at my gratitude in the day and when I go to my bed in the evening, I try to find all things, as I have to be grateful for this day.

I believe in the law of attraction and by experience I found out, that this law works very well. If I wish for something deeply, it will happen in one or another way, when the time is right.

I hope, that you find some inspiration here today.



This post is part of SoCS:

The rule this week: Use the word Change.




Comments on: "Change yourself – Part of SoCS" (51)

  1. Wonderfully, wise words Irene. It is sometimes difficult to face each day with happiness and joy but it can be done.

  2. This post could not have come at a better time for me (yes, it is ALL about ME! πŸ™‚ Just kidding). I love the strength in your words and how you focus on yourself! thank you.

  3. This is very inspiring indeed, Irene. There are some people who are beyond help, I believe but there are also many who can be shown by our example how to be happy. πŸ™‚
    Thank you for participating in SoCS this week πŸ˜€
    P.S. You have a beautiful view!

  4. Irene, that is the only way to to face the day for me. If I can’t laugh things off and put a smile on my face then I might as well stay in bed and curl up and just not move. There’s always someone who needs a hug or a smile, and it might just be my smile they need, and I think you have mirrored that same attitude in your post today. Love it.

  5. Thanks Irene, I needed this! XOXOXO

  6. Very wise words, Irene. Logically, I have always believed that how we view our world, whether it’s negative or positive is directly related to how we feel about ourselves., I have had moments where I felt I had no control over the negative focus. Thank you for sharing your positive beliefs. Each day is getting better, and when I have the pleasure of reading an inspirational post from someone like you, makes it that much more attainable for me.

  7. Love the post and the law of attraction… Thank you for sharing the inspiration! πŸ™‚

  8. Thanks Irene, it’s lovely and so are you πŸ™‚ Don

  9. Reblogged this on Don Charisma and commented:
    Irene, this is an awesome piece of writing, you are certainly a most Charismatic lady. Positivity – you said it perfectly πŸ™‚
    Thankyou for all your encouragement and being an important and valued part of my blog for these past months πŸ™‚



  10. Thanks for such a positive post, Irene. It’s true what you say about a good start to the morning, if circumstances will allow. Before I go to sleep at night I think of three things that I am thankful for. An experiment that was done showed how this can improve emotional and mental health, particularly for children. My dog also makes me smile.

  11. what a wonderfully uplifting post. You have given me inspiration for the start of my day- so glad I read it right after getting up. Thank you πŸ™‚

  12. Reblogged this on The Cobweborium Emporium and commented:
    Read this blog post today, written by a lady called Irene, and found it SO inspiring. It gave me an insight into a much loved friend and different view point which I hadn’t had. It also gave me an understanding about how time spent with her was affecting me – kind of making me feel miserable – but I couldn’t quite put my finger on why this was.

    The blog post made such an impression upon me that I had to re-blog it.

  13. Wow! Thank you so much for this amazing ‘bit’ of writing. You’ve explained to me why I was feeling so bad about not wanting to spend much time with a dear friend who I’ve known for years. I couldn’t understand why I felt so ‘fed up’ and almost miserable when I’d spent time with her of recent, because I loved her to pieces and we’ve always had so much fun when spending time together. It just didn’t make sense to me, but now it does. I’m hoping, that with this new understanding, I’ll feel better equipped to spend time with her and I might even be able to help her to a more positive place in her own life.

    Thank you Irene. I’ve re-blogged this wonderful post.

  14. I believe in the law of attraction too and I know by experience that the law works very well! πŸ™‚

  15. YES! the small, everyday things are the BEST! Living in the moment does bring happiness. It is hard to see the sadness of the past or to feel anxiety of the future when only living in the now! Great post!

    • Thanks for your comment πŸ™‚
      It is not easy just to stay and live in the momento, but when we try and try again, it becomes more easy to practise.
      I believe, that all of us have experiences, we don`t feel the need to remember every day, and why worry
      about the future, we don`t know this and we can`t change, what is not changeable…..

  16. I really enjoy reading your post. Have you heard of the term psychic vampires?they fit your description of people sucking out energies from others. Its true that its very hard to help these people and i feel guilty for not being as patient as you are. I usually just avoid them and now i feel bad for what ive been doing.

    • You don`t need to feel bad, we all do, what we are ready to do to help other souls.

      I have some in my close family, which makes it more difficult just to ignore. I have done a lot to try to change their view of life, and sometimes it helps and sometimes not…..

      My patience is not so big any longer. When I was young, I was very, very patient, but now I don`t have this skill any longer. At least not like earlier in my life.

      I believe and hope, that all of us do our best to be a kind soul to other souls, no matter I do know, this is not right all times. I do still hope…..

      Yes I have heard the term, but I just prefer to relate it in another way. The meaning is the same…..

  17. Beautifully written! Thank you, and I hope your day is as fabulous as you have made mine!

  18. Reblogged this on An Alien in America and commented:
    I would certainly subscribe to Irene’s points about attitude and how everyone chooses their perspective every single day, consciously or unconsciously. And the ongoing challenge is to make each choice a conscious one!

  19. Hi Irene…so glad I landed here. It seems you have many things to say that I need to hear. I love this post…just dealt with a person who should have been so happy for a major accomplishment this weekend and all they could do was point out the negative. It is sad really. Thanks, I look forward to reading more. Blessitude…Lorrie

    • Hi Lorrie and thanks for your roses πŸ™‚

      There are many souls who are difficult to reach. It seems sometimes like they have choosed to only believe in the negative in life.
      Really sad…

  20. I appreciate the thought you’ve put into attempting to replace positivity into those with outwardly negative attitudes. There are definitely people in my life that at times drain me emotionally dry and it isn’t always possible to just walk away. Some people are “ours” for life, even if they are a big challenge. I really enjoyed your perspective. Very encouraging!

  21. I think we all have encountered people like this. It isn’t easy show them how to change their ways. They don’t always want to change. Sometimes the only recourse that works for me is to limit exposure to these people.

  22. adminosari said:

    I agree with you

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