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Some relations is life are more healthy for us than others and it is not always easy to see the difference, while we stand in the middle of them. Some indicators there are, if we are awake to see them, what ever we are in love or just have found new souls in our lives.

I think that most of us know how it is to be in love. We are in a temporary crazy condition, where we don’t see the forest for trees. We do only see, what we wish to see and nothing else. After a while, for some a short while and other demand longer time, we start to see that not all are sugar coated as we felt in the very beginning.

We start to see the less attractive in our new partners, as we were not able to see in the beginning. If this is not too overwhelming, we can go on and learn to live with it. If it just seems to be too much, we should take a look deep inside ourselves and ask if we really are able to live with those conditions for next long time, maybe for the rest of our lives?

When we are in love, what ever it is in a partner or in a new friend, which is also a kind of love, we seem to get temporary blinded and not see anything but positivity. Then it is good to find out, if this relation really also is good to us, no matter what our heart are telling us right now.

It is a very good idea to learn to listen to our intuition and follow this, no matter we wish to or not. It is very rare, that our inner voice, the intuition, are wrong.

As it often are happening, we fall in love in our opposite, which should help us to be more complete, if this is a good and healthy relation for us. Often it is not, even we think so.

Instead of waiting in years to find out, it might be a good idea to wake up and find out, before we jump into this relation with all we have and are. Then we can save ourselves for more pain than necessary.

Sometimes we start to get physically ill, before we find out, that something might be wrong. We need to remember that our mind need to be feeded in a good way, otherwise our body react with illness and sometimes too late.

I do really hope, that you think twice, before you jump into your next relationsship, whatever it is in a partner or in a friend.

What is your experience in all this?

Wish you all good luck πŸ™‚



This post is part of the prompt SoCS by Linda, as you can find here:

Linda wrote:Β Your Friday prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is: β€œsome/sum.”  Use either or both words, or choose a word in which either are used as a prefix or suffix. Have an awesome time with it!

Comments on: "Some/Sum – This post is part of SoCS" (11)

  1. There is so much to say about this topic.
    I have had all these feelings, emotions, and conflicting thoughts in the past. I know how complicated it can be. I hope to figure it out, but I am not holding my breath.

  2. Love is the messiest but most wonderful human emotion. I’m glad for every failed relationship and every jerk I dated and the one I nearly married…they helped me discern the qualities I truly admired and allowed me to be more realistic in my “demands” of a suitable partner and mate. I found my husband and it wouldn’t have happened without all the previous heartache…

  3. I know there are ‘times’ when I look back and wish I had taken more time. But hesitating or delaying…would have changed my course. And right now, I’m happy here. Relationships and all. πŸ™‚

  4. I try to pay attention to my intuition, but I find myself with friends who are awful and usually end up hurting me. I’m not sure why I do it.

    • You are so good to do many things for yourself April, so here you got a new challenge. When you relax in a time every day, try to think that you are able to attract all, what is good and healthy for you, while you inhale. When you outhale think that you release all, what not is serving you in a good way any longer. This helps me so very much to do April and I hope it might help you too πŸ™‚

  5. “In love” is so short-lived. Relationships take work – many people aren’t ready to invest. Wise post, Irene. πŸ™‚

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