Guest post by Bee
Bee
Today I have the pleasure to present one of my very good blogging friends Bee. If you don’t already know her, you should go and visit her. Thank you for being my guest today Bee.
Irene
Bee
Today I have the pleasure to present one of my very good blogging friends Bee. If you don’t already know her, you should go and visit her. Thank you for being my guest today Bee.
Irene
Real friends are the familiy, as I choose myself
Irene
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This post is part of One-Liner Wednesday by Linda, as you can find here:
Badge by: Doobster @ Mindful Digressions
Some relations is life are more healthy for us than others and it is not always easy to see the difference, while we stand in the middle of them. Some indicators there are, if we are awake to see them, what ever we are in love or just have found new souls in our lives.
I think that most of us know how it is to be in love. We are in a temporary crazy condition, where we don’t see the forest for trees. We do only see, what we wish to see and nothing else. After a while, for some a short while and other demand longer time, we start to see that not all are sugar coated as we felt in the very beginning.
We start to see the less attractive in our new partners, as we were not able to see in the beginning. If this is not too overwhelming, we can go on and learn to live with it. If it just seems to be too much, we should take a look deep inside ourselves and ask if we really are able to live with those conditions for next long time, maybe for the rest of our lives?
When we are in love, what ever it is in a partner or in a new friend, which is also a kind of love, we seem to get temporary blinded and not see anything but positivity. Then it is good to find out, if this relation really also is good to us, no matter what our heart are telling us right now.
It is a very good idea to learn to listen to our intuition and follow this, no matter we wish to or not. It is very rare, that our inner voice, the intuition, are wrong.
As it often are happening, we fall in love in our opposite, which should help us to be more complete, if this is a good and healthy relation for us. Often it is not, even we think so.
Instead of waiting in years to find out, it might be a good idea to wake up and find out, before we jump into this relation with all we have and are. Then we can save ourselves for more pain than necessary.
Sometimes we start to get physically ill, before we find out, that something might be wrong. We need to remember that our mind need to be feeded in a good way, otherwise our body react with illness and sometimes too late.
I do really hope, that you think twice, before you jump into your next relationsship, whatever it is in a partner or in a friend.
What is your experience in all this?
Wish you all good luck 🙂
Irene
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This post is part of the prompt SoCS by Linda, as you can find here:
http://lindaghill.com/2015/06/26/the-friday-reminder-and-prompt-for-socs-june-2715/
Linda wrote: Your Friday prompt for Stream of Consciousness Saturday is: “some/sum.” Use either or both words, or choose a word in which either are used as a prefix or suffix. Have an awesome time with it!
I would like to ask my blogging friends about, where it could be good to try to sell online Jewelry & Accessories?
I received an invitation to join DaWanda few days ago. I don’t know this company and would like to hear about your experiences.
Years ago I sold at eBay and some Danish sites and they were not a good idea, at least not to continue with.
Now I sell at Etsy and would like to try more another places even I do know it is a big job, demand long time, to start up selling at a new place.
I would really appreciate to hear about your experiences, thank you 🙂
Irene
One of our Orange Trees in our new garden
Are you a good friend?
There are several kind of friendships.
The peripheral friend, where you know the name and a little more about the other person.
The related friend, maybe your families friend or friends friend.
The good friend as you know much about and they do also know much about you.
The close friend as know almost all about you or at least the things you did choose to share.
The very close friend as we can define as a family member, we did choose ourselves.
What define you as a good friend? What are you doing to keep your friendships alive? Are you available when your friends need you, no matter what time it is? Do you remember to call and just ask, how are you, to your friends? Even you are busy, this is possible. We need to remember to appreciate our friends, while we have them.
It can be difficult to find time enough to be the good friend we wish to be. Jobs, family and kids take most of our time, but our friends are important to have too, even you don’t feel, that you need them right now. One day it can be too late, if you forget to keep the contact. We can all have periods in our lives, where we are very busy, sick or depressed and then the abundance are much less than usual. In those times it is wonderful to have good friends, as will remember you, if you did not forget them, when they needed you.
How do you define a good friend for you?
I try to be a good friend for my friends and I make mistakes too. When I don’t feel the abundance, I’m very bad to remember to contact my friends. Then I have been so very lucky, that those friends did contact me anyway. In other times I try to be the good friend, who helps my friends, where ever I can and they are always welcome to call me, also in the middle of the night, if they really need to talk.
What do you need from your friends? Are you the friend who gives the needed attention or the one, who always receive?
Friendship goes both ways, we need to be there for each other, when the other need us. Like when you need a good friend for talking. We need to support each other best possible.
I appreciate honesty and loyalty very much in my friendships, just like the mutual respect for each other are very important.
What is friendship for you? I would really like to know.
I hope you did enjoy reading.
Irene
I wish all of you a Happy New Year and I’m looking forward to see, what 2014 will bring us all.
Thank you for your continued support at my blog, I really appreciate this.
Thank you for all my new friends at WordPress. Wish all of you a wonderful New Year.
Irene
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