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Love & Life


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Love has many different kind of definitions and we do all use the word Love in different ways, because we are different in mind

For one, Love can be the most important in life, if this person can be able to love one another more, than their own life

For another, Love has other definitions

I feel, that the most important must be to love one self, before we are able to love another soul with an open and honest heart. For me, this is some of a place to reach

I find it also very important to teach our kids to love themselves and that they always are worth loving. No matter, what they do, they are lovable. Sometimes we need to show our kids the way, which often works much better, than only by talking about it. Don’t be scared to tell and show your kids the way, then learn much more by, what they see, you are doing

We do all learn by life and learn by own experiences. We do acts, as are not the best choices, but they are ours, we own them, and we are responsible for these choices. If we are acting in less good ways, the only one, who are able to change this, is one selves

We are only responsible for our own life and can not blame others, if our life is going in a way, as we don’t wish it to. No one can read our thoughts, even many would like them to or even expect them to do so. Then we need to look inside and find out, which way will be the right one for us and then ACT at this. Everything else is just dreaming…

As I have mentioned before, life is, what we make out of it. Live out your dreams, don’t ever expect others to live out your dreams. No matter, how old we are, it is never too late to do something to change our circumstances. We just need to find out, what is most important for us in our life, then think deeply about this and find out, what is needed to do, for being able to change, so we can live our life, as we – until now – only have been dreaming about

Any relationship should be build at mutual respect and a kind of love. Without mutual respect it is difficult to build any kind of healthy relationship, whatever it is as a lover or a friend. The more long time, as we know each other, the more we get to know about each other. Something are very lovable and other things not

It is different, how we are developing inside a relationship. Either we are developing in same direction and the love are growing day by day, which is wonderful, when this is possible

In many relationships, we are developing in different ways, either because of job, more or new education, friends or interests. While we are young, the world seems to be open and full of possibilities. It is not always easy to choose the right path and other we change our path several times, before we find out, where we wish to stay and live in this life. While all this is going on, we can look at our friends and see, some are staying where they chose to be for many years ago, they are still there, others has been changing their path many times and some have still not found their way of life yet. When we are in a relationship for love, we do still learn new every day, if we wish to and sometimes we do develop in each direction by time. One day we might find out, that this relationship is not, what we would like it to be. We are now too different and might also have different ways of living our dream life. This can end up with a break in the relationship, which often will be the best of all involved, even there are also kids involved

If we wish to teach our kids to live and stay honest to themselves, we do also need to do exactly the same to ourselves. This is also, what they learn by and to stay in a relationship only because you have kids together, is often a bad solution

We wish all the best for our kids, this is also why, we need to teach them to live our life in love to ourselves and I don’t mean this in an egoistic way. If we teach our kids to love themselves, they will be strong enough to choose for themselves later in life, to live in a healthy and loving relationship and don’t stay in a place, where they are not able to feel alive any longer

I have been changing my path many times in my life. I have followed my dreams many times, not all went well, but I learned a lot by this, which I can use to take better choices for the rest of this life. I hope by this, to have taught my kids to live a loving life, where they are able to develop themselves and no one are allowed to stop them in this. To live and love with mutual respect

Irene

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Speaking with several tongues – This post is a part of SoCS


I get frustrated when people speak with several tongues. I prefer that people are honest whatever it can get expensive in knowledge. When I ask a human about something and they say one thing and by looking at them, I can see they mean something different, I get sad and a little mad, because I feel it is rude not to be honest, when people ask you about something.

Maybe they don’t wish to tell me the truth, but then tell me that – stay honest and get my respect too. I respect people, when they answer equal, no matter who ask them and don’t change their answers after the situation.

Some people can also feel, that I behave rude sometimes. If they ask me about something, I do my best to give them a honest answer, no matter they might ask me just because they needed one to agree with them. Then I prefer they don’t ask at all.

I’m sure, you have tried this many times in your life too and I do understand, if you also get frustrated. Often we meet this in companies among people working. Someone don’t answer honest, because they don’t wish to hurt anyone and other are telling you one thing and then go to another colleague and tell them the same story but with another ending.

Why are people doing this? I really don’t understand it.

I think that when some people have a boring life, they need to do something to spice it up, so they seem more interesting. This can really escalate if they continue that life style and become a life in a fantasi world instead of doing something to get an interesting life. Sad for them, but we can’t live other peoples life, but only show them our way to live and act.

How do you react when people are speaking with several tongues? I would really like to know. Thank you.

 

I hope that you enjoyed reading. The topic will continue in next weekend.

Irene

 

This post is part of SoCS: http://lindaghill.wordpress.com/2014/06/06/the-friday-reminder-and-prompt-for-socs-june-714/

Todays prompt is Tongue

Friends – how ?


 

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One of our Orange Trees in our new garden

 

Are you a good friend?

 

There are several kind of friendships.

The peripheral friend, where you know the name and a little more about the other person.

The related friend, maybe your families friend or friends friend.

The good friend as you know much about and they do also know much about you.

The close friend as know almost all about you or at least the things you did choose to share.

The very close friend as we can define as a family member, we did choose ourselves.

 

What define you as a good friend? What are you doing to keep your friendships alive? Are you available when your friends need you, no matter what time it is? Do you remember to call and just ask, how are you, to your friends? Even you are busy, this is possible. We need to remember to appreciate our friends, while we have them.

It can be difficult to find time enough to be the good friend we wish to be. Jobs, family and kids take most of our time, but our friends are important to have too, even you don’t feel, that you need them right now. One day it can be too late, if you forget to keep the contact. We can all have periods in our lives, where we are very busy, sick or depressed and then the abundance are much less than usual. In those times it is wonderful to have good friends, as will remember you, if you did not forget them, when they needed you.

 

How do you define a good friend for you?

I try to be a good friend for my friends and I make mistakes too. When I don’t feel the abundance, I’m very bad to remember to contact my friends. Then I have been so very lucky, that those friends did contact me anyway. In other times I try to be the good friend, who helps my friends, where ever I can and they are always welcome to call me, also in the middle of the night, if they really need to talk.

What do you need from your friends? Are you the friend who gives the needed attention or the one, who always receive?

Friendship goes both ways, we need to be there for each other, when the other need us. Like when you need a good friend for talking. We need to support each other best possible.

I appreciate honesty and loyalty very much in my friendships, just like the mutual respect for each other are very important.

What is friendship for you? I would really like to know.

 

I hope you did enjoy reading.

Irene

 

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